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sunday, november 30, 2008
hell freezes over... ...Pamela drank beer and liked
it! Hallelujah! Now all 3 of Stody's sisters drink beer (myself included). I think Sean (aka "Saint Stody" -
see below) has done his job!
Here's an update from Sean, in his own words:
The hair is really falling
out now. Already developing some patches on the right side so I think I may go get it trimmed down today. The face is still
tender, sore, and swollen, so hopefully something happens by Monday so I can avoid all the "We May Have To's".
Got to go back out to the brewery yesterday with Pamela and Kris (my sister and Bro-in-law) where I finally got to try my
'Sean Pizza' (that's what they refer to it as since it was my pizza design for the menu) which is the Buffalo
Chicken Pizza. Start with a Spent beer grain pizza
crust, add a light Ranch sauce, celery, onions, Buffalo Chicken sauce, Chicken chunks, and cheese and it is an incredible pizza. Chef Aaron did a great job at making it 'pop'! I just wish I could have
enjoyed a quality MBC beer with it it but my medical needs/concerns come first so a little self control and will-power remained
in place.
So I am feeling rather proud right now. As many
know, I have been a big advocate for beer as people generally assume beer is 'Low-Class' and is just for pizza and
tailgate parties. Because of the years of Haute Cuisine brain-washing, many feel that ONLY
wine can only be paired with good food. Those that know quality beer and its many flavors and styles (No, Bud, Corona, and
Coors do not count) know that you can better pair a beer with food dishes than wine. How is that possible? Because most do
not realize that there are more beer styles than wine styles, and unlike in wine production,
the grain consistency from year to year is better/easier maintained in beer so a 2006 Stone IPA will taste the same as a 2008
whereas wines vary sometimes even within the same year due to grape issues.
So someone who tells you that "I can't stand beer" basically just has not found a beer style to suit their pallate or food dishes.
My sister Pamela is a diehard wine connoisseur
who belongs to many wine clubs, tours wineries, conducts tastings and pairings, etc and has NEVER drank a full beer in her
life becasue she can't stand the taste. So this holiday, I had a chance to work my magic.
Not only did she drink A beer, but she drank a few beers and actually commented how stunned she was at realizing the true
flavor profiles in quality beer. I think most impressed was hubby Kris who was in total shock at her seeing her not only drink
a beer, but commenting on "How Good" it was.
So, not only did she jump into the beer pool, but
she jumped straight into the deep end. Over the course of her visit, she had the following "Big People Beers":
- A Smoked Porter I brewed when I first moved to Maui (Aged over 5 years). Porters are very dark and
this one had a good sense of smokiness to it.
- Maui Brewing Company Choco-latte Porter which had a great subtle chocolate and coffee flavor in a deeper/richer body. - Hot Blonde which is a MBC Bikini Blonde beer (lighter
style lager) mixed with Chipotle peppers so you get a mild sense of smoked spiciness. - She even shared a
Coconut Porter with Hubby Kris at our house which is currently sitting as one of the world's top Porters.
Who knows, maybe someday they'll name me Saint Stody - the Patron Saint of Beer
and Dive Safety. Hmm, not sure those 2 go together though since it's better to swim like a fish than to drink like one.
Or vice versa if the work week has been hard!
Anyway, happy holidays to all. Sean
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friday, november 28, 2008
good white blood cells to the rescue! So, although I was 3,000 miles away from my brother, my boyfried Orv and
I hosted a small Thanksgiving of our own. We had Orv's cousin, Devin, our close friend and one of Orv's business partners,
Bill, and Orv's Aunt Sharon over. His aunt, coincidentally enough, brought these little stuffed animals which, well, weren't
animals at all. In fact, they are actually microbes. (Visit their website at www.giantmicrobes.com.) Orv's been fighting a nasty MRSA ("multiple resistant Staphylococcus aureus", aka "Superbug") and
has been on all sorts of antibiotics (I say it's sympathy illness for Sean). Anyway, Sharon brought over a Superbug for
Orv, as well as some of its friends. Here's MRSA hanging out with his good pal, White Blood Cell.

And here's Superbug having a cold one:

And here's Mr. Healthy White Blood Cell coming
to Sean's rescue!
Hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving!
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wednesday, november 26, 2008
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!Who says gratitude can't be
funny??? :)
Where'd that rootin'-tootin' gosh dang turkey go???
 Or perhaps it's a study on alternative energy sources.
How Sean's
neurosurgeon celebrates Thanksgiving. "Baster?" "Baster." "Twine?" "Twine."

More proof that the holidays can be just downright harsh.

Notice how 'gullible' and 'gobble' sound similar to each other?

Really, what could be worse than a prophetic turkey?

Another Atkins victim loses its head...

Soylent Green.....$5.99

"Sunny day, everything's A-OK..." Well, maybe not everyone!

When love turns fowl...
 Why can't we all just get along?

Congressional turkeys. (It is an election year, after all)

TURKEY DAY 2005 Mel and Jordyn gave me the Indian name "One who is tall as arrow."
It should've been "One who should not take pictures without makeup." (Let alone *willingly* publish them.
Yeck.)

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tuesday, november 25, 2008
just when Sean thought it was safe to use his brain... ...it goes and revolts against him again. Ahhhh, where should I start? Poor Sean, the
man just can't get a break. This cancer thing is just unrelenting!
So here's what happened: Sean went in for his routine radiation therapy today and the radiologist noticed he had pronounced swelling and tenderness
on his face, particularly the side that is receiving the brunt of the radiation. The radiologist promptly sent him to
the oncologist for a quick evaluation. He said that the fear is that there may be a possible subdural
infection in the skin/muscle layer. Sean then underwent another CT scan and they did see what
looks like fluid in the area, which could be either a sign of infection or just irritation from the radiation at the incision
areas.
To add another level of fear and concern to this is that
the blood tests conducted on Monday showed Sean's liver levels came back elevated again despite no
new medications (what was presumed the cause last time). Per the doctors, the liver will go 'haywire' if there
is an infection, especially since the chemo/radiation already puts the immune system into overdrive. So the doctors, erring
on the side of caution, would rather halt the chemo/radiation while they determine whether or not it's an infection.
Unfortunately, if the antibiotics do not stop the infection or there is no sign of improvement come the next doctor's
appointment on Monday, then they may have to go back in and check for infection, clean the site, etc. So, at this time, all
is on hold as they try to determine if it is just an irritated surgery site or is in fact an infection. As Mel said,
this is kind of a huge step back for him right now, but we're all staying positive.
Here's an analogy
that Sean gave about his situation:
"Sometimes I feel like I am driving through life in a lowered vehicle as there seems
to be so many speed bumps lately. Oh well, I guess that's the new joys of learning to live with cancer."
So at first I thought, "Great, my brother thinks he's a jalopy," but soon after I read it, I got
a little Santana rift playing through my head...'doo-da-doo-doot-doot, da-doo-da-doot-doot'...and I decided to look
up the lyrics to "Low Rider", which are as follows:
All my friends know the Low Rider (Yup,
that's true, everyone knows Sean) The Low Ri-der is a little higher (Yup, with all this
support, Sean's standing a little taller these days)
Low Ri-der drives a little slower (Umm...well
so far we haven't noticed him being any slower...will have to come back to this one!) Low Ri-der
is a real go'er (Sean is definitely a real go-getter!!! Cancer ain't never seen an opponent like this
guy!)
Hey (Sometimes "Hey" is just "Hey")
Low
Ri-der knows every street yeah (At 36, Sean's been around a block or two) Low Ri-der is
the one to meet yeah (I feel bad for anyone who DOESN'T know Sean. That means you're a prime target for
his practical jokes and shenanigans! [Former coworkers at Seascape know what I mean])
Low Ri-der don't
use no gas now (Nope, he's self-producing! Hahahaha) Low Ri-der don't drive too
fast (Dude, he was a cop. But I think this has more to do with him not zipping through life too fast. Sometimes
you gotta learn to be still.)
Take a little trip (Which reminds me that life is a journey,
not a destination...) Take a little trip Take a little trip and see (...so we'll just
have to embark on it and see...)
Take a little trip Take a little trip Take a little trip
with me... (and we're lucky because we're invited to join him on this adventure, or, as Jordy says, "The
Many Adventures of Daddy's Brain.")
We'll
continue to keep you all posted as to what is happening over the next few days.
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sunday, november 23, 2008
got chemo?Tomorrow is already the beginning of Week 3 in Sean's chemo and radiation
therapy. He's been tolerating both surprisingly well, despite the headaches that usually follow radiation. So, lest Sean
start feeling like he's living "The Truman Show", I've obviously cut back the updates to a weekly basis.
Don't worry, if anything exciting happens I'll be sure to post, but since everyday is pretty routine, I thought I'd
spare you all the play-by-play.
Mel has returned to work on a not-yet-full-time-but-still-more-than-part-time basis.
Her work has been amazing and their flexibility will allow her to take Sean to his radiation appointments every weekday morning.
They only last roughly 10 minutes, but he can't drive himself due to the chance he could have a seizure and also simply
because he's on anti-seizure medication. Jordyn has been sick so she's been "quarantined" to the upstairs
(forced to watch TV and play Wii without parental interruption? Not such a bad gig if you ask me!) so that Sean, with his
weakened immune system, doesn't come down with it, too.
My sister, Pamela, and her husband, Kris, arrived
yesterday to visit. They will be staying through Thanksgiving. I would like to be a little fly on the wall on Thanksgiving
Day - I imagine there is going to be some major culinary undertaking going on as both Sean and Pamela love to cook. It will
be a Williams-Sonoma showdown; may the best spatula win!
And speaking of Thanksgiving, this holiday I am particularly
thankful. I'm thankful that Maui Brewing Co. will be featuring their Black Pearl and Father Damien Abbey Ale at the 12th
Annual Strong Ale Festival at Pizza Port on December 5th & 6th: http://www.pizzaport.com/realalefest.htm and http://mauibrewingco.com/mbc/events.php (I just laughed out loud because, no offense to Garrett and Melanie, but there appears to be a small typo on the website
--> the starting time on Saturday is listed as "6:11am"; now that's some early risin' drinkers!). But
in all seriousness, despite the bleak circumstances and the uncertainty that comes with such a prognosis, I'm glad that
Sean's here and is still himself. I really couldn't ask for more than that. Soon he might be a little less (okay,
a LOT less) hairier, but the question begging to be answered is: Is that really such a bad thing, people? ;-)
Lastly, please check out updated info on the "Fundraisers" page, particularly regarding the Carlsbad Marathon
& Half Marathon. There is a separate website www.race4seansbrain.com that has been setup just for this event. [Thank you to Nata and Jess for donating your skills and evenings to create the
website and launch our fundraising efforts!]
Will post before then, but in case you miss us, Happy Thanksgiving
everybody!
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monday, november 17, 2008
week 2 Update from Sean:
"So
I get an email today from a company and the title of the email is "Melany Stodelle is available". Boy, she sure
is starting to hit the dating sites early! Turns out it was for a web domain company trying to sell me melanystodelle.com!
I had to laugh at that one!
Treatment
went good today. Had to do the blood in the morning, then the radiation. Turns out that each week, they have a 'Recalibration
Day' which is one of the longer treatments since they have to recalibrate the machines, take new imaging pics to ensure
alignment, etc. Not so bad, but the machine is moved by the hand so you have this face mask clamped on, eyes closed, and the
table is being moved/spun all over. Made me somewhat dizzy, but other than that, it was all good. Now back home and feeling
tired already and all we did was go to treatment and breakfast. Still have a Costco trip planned."
- Sean
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saturday, november 15, 2008
sean's melon masterpieceNow that's using your melon! (ha, ha)

Yum! Suddenly I wish I played soccer, if not for the yummy treats!
Here's an update from Sean:
"So
my first day without Radiation and the fatigue wasn't all that bad. Jordyn had her last soccer game and we also had the
team party for the Maui Girls (her soccer team name). Jordyn scored a goal and her team won. They had a great coach this year
that really taught them about teamwork and sportsmanship. In fact, they were ahead 6 to ZERO at one point and I was proud
to hear Jordyn say that the team "should stop making goals so that the other girls don't feel bad on their last game".
The coach really stressed to them how bad it feels when one team dominates the other and early in the season would encourage
the girls to go to a 'passing game' scenario (easier for the other team to steal the ball back) when they were ahead
without it being too obvious that the Maui Girls were backing off. The Maui Girls won and it was time for the party.
Unfortunately, we got stuck having to bring fruit since everybody else signed up for the GOOD stuff while
we were gone. How do you make fruit exciting for kids? Easy, let a bored chef that has been laying around come up with some
ideas.
So I woke up early and the knife skills
began. I carved a melon to look like a soccer ball, we stuck the cored out base of a pineapple inside as a cup. Mel made a
marshmallow and cream cheese dip in it to put on the fruit. Oh come on, like that doesn't make fruit
taste better. You know you would all eat more fruit if it grew like that!!! They were most impressed with their soccer team
name on the ball as well as the fact that there were parents that were saying it's OK to put sweet stuff on your fruit.
And NO, there was no writing or pens used. It is all knife carving and the green you see is actually Nori (seaweed used in
sushi) placed behind it for contrast. I was happy with the outcome at least as it shows I am still capable of wielding a knife."
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friday, november 14, 2008
MAHALO FROM SEANPlease follow the link below to read Sean's
mahalo to all those that attended and worked behind the scenes to make this past weekend's dive tournament/benefit a reality:
http://www.stodelle.com/mahalo.htm
7:05 pm | link
brings new meaning to 'brain drain' Here's an update from Isolde but in Sean's own words:
"Yesterday was terrible. I have not been that tired in a long time.
I told Mel that I felt I had been up for several days but hadn't. Every Thursday we meet with the doctor so they can evaluate
treatment and he said that it's normal but may get worse. WORSE???? I better go buy one of these:

http://gizmodo.com/gadgets/gadgets/selkbag-sleeping-bag-153211.php
So that way if I go down in the mall, or in Costco, I will at least
be comfortable through my nap!!!! Can you imagine looking into a passing cart and thinking "Oh look, a sleepy baby"
and then see my ugly mug snoring back at you? I guess it wouldn't be that bad until the diaper change!" (Eww,
thanks for the visual, Sean!) ------------------- I think I'm somehow suffering the chemo and radiation
effects by proxy because after yesterday's red-eye flight, I feel ruined! I can't even begin to empathize with what
Sean's going through! :(
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wednesday, november 12, 2008
THANK YOU, MRS. WILSON'S CLASS! Sean's little cousin, Ally, made a very special delivery to Sean
on her recent visit. Ally's entire class made Sean "get well" cards, which he opened and read one by one. This
was really touching, and Sean wants to thank each and every one of you very, very much for thinking of him.
Ally
presents Sean with an envelope containing the cards made by Mrs. Wilson's class, while her cousin, Jordyn, looks
on.

Sean opening and reading all the cards.

Sean really enjoyed reading the cards, and appreciated how much time and effort went into making them!

Here's Sean and Ally once all the cards were opened. That's a LOT of cards! He loved every one of
them.

Here's Ally with her cousins, Savannah and Jordyn, with Sean and all the cards made for him by Mrs. Wilson's
class.

In Hawaiian, the word for "thank you" is "mahalo",
so Sean wants to send a huge
MAHALO
to Ally
and the rest of Mrs. Wilson's class!
11:43 am | link
it's a chemo party!CHEMO PARTY

To
commemorate Sean's inauguration into chemotherapy, his clever wife, Melany, threw him a "Chemo-flage" Party,
complete with visors and army helmets with authentic names like, "MAJOR HEADACHE", "PVT. PARTS",
and "MAJOR PAIN"
Sean's niece, Savannah, codename "MAJOR HEADACHE"
Sean's Dad, Mike, aka "SGT. RADIATION", displays his best "We're not afraid of
no stinkin' chemo" face.
 Fighting the war on cancer!
 Let the fight begin! We even sang Sean, "Happy Chemo to you, happy chemo to you..."

Warning: The following photograph is of an explicit nature and may not be appropriate for sensitive viewers.
Sean displaying his new curves IF he were to grow "mitties" ('man titties', as affectionately
dubbed by Jordyn)

You know you've got a supportive, positive family when they're willing to adopt your own sick and twisted
humor to help you celebrate what could be one of the darkest moments of your life. Thanks to all who made Sean's first
day of chemo and radiation a little more tolerable and strangely, downright FUN!
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monday, november 10, 2008
chemo - day 1Ugh, chemo. C-H-E-M-O. Just the word alone sends shivers down my spine. It's
an ominous word, along with its trusty sidekick and constant companion, cancer. Unfortunately for Sean, he is getting to know
both intimately beginning today. Not only will the chemo wreak havoc on his body, but he is doing it concurrently with radiation
therapy. He goes in for his first radiation appointment today at 2:30 pm Hawaii time (4:30 pm PST). He is in good hands with
Dr. Baker and nurse Janice Yoshikawa (Brian's wife) at the Pacific Cancer Institute, who contracts with Kaiser. In
case you didn't read the post from 11/5, Sean will undergo what is known as external beam radiation, also known as "IMRT".
There is a wealth of information available on their site about this procedure. Please visit http://pacificcancerins.ipower.com/pacificcancerinstitute/patients/technology.asp.
Luckily for Sean, his chemotherapy will be administered in pill form, specifically Temodar. Note: I say "luckily"
loosely in that at least the pills will be less disruptive to his schedule since they won't require him to leave
the house. You can learn more about the process of chemotherapy, its side effects and all it will entail by
following this link: http://www.chemotherapy.com/treating_with_chemo/how/receive_chemo.jsp.
Now the waiting game begins. Waiting to see how Sean responds to chemo, waiting to see how Sean's brain
likes (or heaven forbid dislikes) radiation, waiting to see if the tumor grows back, etc., etc. But Sean, Melany
and Jordyn are strong, and I know the major outpouring of love from friends, family and the dive community they
received yesterday just reinforces their resolve! So, in true Stody fashion, we are all gathering for a post-chemo dinner
at Bill and Cindy's (Mel's parents who literally live down the street) house. I will update sometime afterwards to
let all you Stody supporters know how the first day went.
P.S. I really like the t-shirt that Brian Yoshikawa
wore yesterday to the tournament. On the back of it, it read "I CAN-CER VIVE." Yup, you can and you will!
3:27 pm | link
many, many mahalos! WOW, what a day and what a turnout!
The 2nd Maui Invasives
Tournament at Hard Rock Cafe yesterday was a hit and the support for my bro, Sean, was overwhelming to say the least. After
both physically and emotionally recovering from yesterday's event, I have thought about what I wanted to post, but I think
Sean says it best. Here is a huge mahalo to everyone in Stody's own words: (reposted courtesy
of Hawaii Skin Diver's Community Forum)
"The Roi Roundup went off today and boy was I
an emoional mess. 40 teams of divers (2 divers each) were entered and the Roi were brought in enmass. I’m sure Darrell
or someone else has the official numbers and totals, but I will respond as the recipient of of an entire community’s
support.
The push for dive safety has led to what some call the “One up, One Down” method of diving.
Today’s tournament pushed this message as well by having one float for each 2 man team by keeping the divers together
with one float so they are not tempted to venture apart as is sometimes common in tournaments.
I will tell you,
watching all these divers sit inside the HardRock Café, sharing their stories, laughing, eating, and having a good
time, it made me realize that this saying goes way beyond the mere dive safety motto.
As many of you know I was
recently diagnosed with the most malignant and terminal brain cancer one can get. As soon as word of this went out, the outpouring
of support for the Stodelle family started coming in. From all the HSD Ohana on Oahu coming to visit us in the hospital, bringing
us cards, gift cards for food items, well wishes, clothing items, blankets, and other comfort items showered us with the support
of an entire community.
Well today, it continued and all I can say was what an emotional mess I was to see so many
come together in support of our reefs and for me. I was asked to say some Mahalos which was one of the most difficult things
I could do since the emotions were running high. As I stood there on stage looking out, it hit me that the motto was actually
“One Diver Down, One Thousand Up."
So while I can not even begin to say MAHALO enough, it is so comforting
to see so many want to help. So many people coming to me and delivering the same message "We’re here for you Stody.
You’ve helped so many of us that now we want to pay you back and help you."
One of the most touching
was Kimi Werner and Lance Otsuba donating their first place trophy to me and dedicating their win in my honor. The amount
of prizes that were donated was most impressive with prizes running the gamut from a Wong Hybrid Speargun, Kawabunga 3 prongs,
Aimrite Floats, Hammerhead Evolution Spearguns, Hammerhead gloves and rash guards, Heineken prizes, Izuo Bros fishing poles,
a Penn 80 reel, Beuchat guns, Hawaii Skin Diver merchandise, and so much more.
This list is nowhere near complete
of all the prizes donated, but it helped to make this event a huge success. A lot of Invasive Species were removed from the
reef, divers left with great prizes, and I got to witness and hear form others firsthand the impact that one individual can
make not only on an entire sport/lifestyle, but the impact that that same sport/lifestyle can return.
Today, I
feel like a king and given the fact that my journey through hell begins tomorrow, I go into this with my head held high, my
heart filled with love, and a pride that gives me the fuel to face my coming course of treatment.
To all that were
a part of this, my entire family thanks you. I thank you for the faith, trust, and support you are providing and please know
that this adds to the fuel to power my ‘fight’. It adds to my not wanting to let anyone down which means I fight
harder."
- Sean "Stody" Stodelle
A more detailed account of yesterday's
activities will be posted in the next 24 hours for all those that would've liked to have attended but for various
reasons were unable to. Photos will be uploaded, too. In the meantime, here are some highlights of the overall results:
Total Rois caught: 237 (!)
Awards for "Most Fish"
Category:
1st Place: Kimi Werner (10) and Lance Otsubo (12) = 22 pieces 2nd Place: Dean Kawamura and Brian
Nakamoto = 21 pieces 3rd Place: Darrell Tanaka and Kapena Segundo = 20 pieces
My personal mahalos:
- Jill Holley and Rede Eder at Hard Rock Cafe, for providing the forum and jumping on anything and everything
we needed! - Brian Yoshikawa of Maui Sporting Goods for coordinating the event and sacrificing his own chance to dive
yesterday just to make sure it all went smoothly. - Darrell Tanaka for coordinating the event and his entire involvement
throughout the day. - Jackie Tanaka for graciously handling the raffle table (even though I abandoned her), along with
Pat and Topsi for coming to the rescue! - Melissa Buffington for showing up and not knowing what she was getting into,
but for taking on every assignment with a huge grin! - Matt and Guy for setting up and being troopers despite basking
in the direct sun! - All those guys and gals who also volunteered but whose names I sadly did not get. :( - All
the sponsors and donors who happily donated some of the best gear, gift certs and schwag I've ever seen! - Leokane
for driving all the way from Hana for another stellar performance out of the goodness of their own hearts! - Mike
Stodelle, Sean's Dad, for not really having a choice but rescuing my sissy-a** anyway and relieving me of my emcee-duties
at a moment's notice! - Rae, who brazingly stuck it out in the heat to spread the word about IYOR (International
Year of the Reef). - All the divers for showin' up and shootin' 'em up! You guys are an amazing
community. And to all the divers who couldn't make it, but hopefully will for the next one! Your support of the
cause and my bro is a constant presence, whether you were there physically or not. - Our family and friends that hailed
from all over to show their support and who rounded out the event in such a special way. - Sean, for being the man you
are and who obviously has and is continuing to touch so many lives. I truly feel like you're no longer just
"my brother", as your brotherhood extends beyond our bloodline. - Melany, for being the biggest trooper I know
and for loving my brother so dearly. - Jordyn for totally upstaging everyone and handling the mic like a pro! -
But most importantly, to KUHEA PARACUELLES who despite working 7 days a week and doing events of this type all the time, went
above and beyond to make this event happen. Thanks to the 3 of you (Kuhea, Brian and Darrell), this event made a lasting impression
on our reefs, our community, and our family. Thanks for letting me be a part of it. I'll be your gopher anytime!
MAHALO!!!! ~ melissa
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friday, november 7, 2008
"Count Sean-ula" "I vant more candy!"
Desperate plea from Mel: "These are some
of the strange things Sean does when he has too much sugar on Halloween. Please folks, NO
MORE SUGAR FOR SEAN!" :-)
Sean is doing good; had a brief reprieve from doctor's
appointments yesterday and had an all-around rather uneventful day going to Costco, watching movies, and just laying
low. Today he has a couple of check-ins with his doctors, but luckily these are going to be done over the phone.
Isolde and my Dad, Mark, both arrive on Maui late tonight, as does Tiffany with the girls, Ally and Savannah,
on Oahu (they get in too late to make a connection over to Kahului, so they'll arrive tomorrow a.m.). So watch out, Stody,
we're bolstering the troops in preparation for the real fight to begin: chemo and radiation begin Monday! (ugh)
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wednesday, november 5, 2008
update from 11/5 Update from Mike:
The early doctor’s appointments do allow for us to get a lot done. We
met with the oncology pharmacist
who gave Sean and Mel their instructions and literature on not only the Temador but also on the anti-nausea medications as
well. She explained the possible side effects, loss of hair, fatigue, nausea, etc., and what to do should these things
occur.
He will be taking 160mg of Temodar and this is determined by his height and weight etc. If
he should experience a loss of weight, then this dosage may be adjusted. He will have a couple of different anti-nausea
medications. He then went and had his blood drawn for the additional testing that Dr. Coty ordered.
Our
next stop was the radiation oncology
office where Sean was measured and fitted for his radiation headgear that he will wear during treatment. This mask is
a plastic material that was heated in warm water, then placed over Sean and formed to his head and face. This is what
is marked for the radiation locations etc and is affixed to the table when he goes into the machine for the treatment. It
also keeps his head from moving during treatment.

The entire treatment after his first one will only take about 10 minutes. As of right now, Sean is scheduled
to begin his first treatment on Monday 11/10/08 at around 2pm. This means that he will also start his chemo on the same
day. It looks like, barring any unforeseen delays, we will finally get going on Monday!
9:47 pm | link
update from 11/4 Here's an update from Mike of what transpired yesterday:
Dr. Baker covered Sean’s history, did a very thorough neuro-exam, checked his scar
healing, a vision check, checked his arms and legs for reflexes, and looked deep into the corneas at the vessels, and said
that everything looked really good.
He said that he had seen a lot on his 24 years as a radiology-oncologist, and specifically in the neurology field.
He has treated GBM’s many times and is very familiar with them. He wants to start off by warning Sean that
he has a very aggressive attitude with radiation
therapy. He plans to start radiation with an external beam radiation also called IMRT for 6 weeks at a strength
of 60 grey. He will radiate 1-2 cm around the surgical site, except where sensitive structures are that they would have
to avoid, like the optic nerve, the pituitary gland and the
brain stem. (This is consistent with the neuro oncology dr.’s that we have been consulting with.) This will coincide with
the Temodar which has been ordered by Dr. Coty. (Chemo training 11/5 @ 930am) If there is any enhancement following
the 1st course of treatment (6 weeks) after the first scans, they will follow up with radial-surgery such as Stereotactic
radial surgery or gamma knife.
He warned of side effects: inevitably there will be hair loss, which is likely to grow
back, and some rare side effects like abscesses, additional vision problems, and pituitary gland damage which can affect his
hormone levels. (Sean asked if he would grow “man boobs”, which he thought was pretty funny!)
Dr. Baker said that he would investigate mainland clinical trials for Sean and could possibly administer med’s here in Maui . He is connected
with CRCH who has lists of trials which he offered to investigate for Sean. He would be willing to work with Kaiser
Doctors in coordinating his meds and care with them.
Dr. Baker said if he had a brain tumor, he would consult with Dr. Lynn Ashby from Phoenix at BNI, Barrows
Neurological Institute. She is a close colleague of his and is connected closely with Hawaii and almost
started a practice here. He considers her the best in the Neuro oncology field. He said he would be willing to
consult with her in Sean’s case.
We
set an appointment for tomorrow 11/5 at 11am to measure for a mask of Sean’s face to make a metal helmet for protection
during radiation. They will also layer MRI scans on top of CT scans to make a topography
map of Sean’s brain, mapping the resection site and make a plan for his radiation therapy. Sean is all ready for
his Iron Man Mask! The doctor said it would take a couple days to develop the plan and get a start date.
In the meantime the doctor will investigate trials,
that Sean qualifies for, which we could do here on Maui , involving some drugs or vaccines that show promise. The doctor
just got back from a conference with thousands of neuro oncologists that were sharing all their knowledge in the newest and
greatest methods and drugs in their field. He prides himself on staying abreast of all matters of the brain and considers
it his forte. He reassured us that if there was something new that was having great and wonderful results, the other
neuro oncologists would be jumping all over them.
Immediately following the appointment, he called back after consulting with Dr. Ashby,
in Arizona , and she recommended Chemo/radiation as recommended and NOT using drugs such as
Avastin until after a reoccurrence due to the risk of further damaging the body.
Sean was quite impressed with the doctor and his knowledge and expertise. He is
equally impressed with his commitment and follow through. He is pleased that we have a doctor that understands our struggles
with finding cutting edge cancer treatment on a rock in the middle of the ocean, and is willing to do everything within his
power to help us find it. He has seen first hand how hard it is for patients to travel and live out of their suitcases,
sleeping in hotels and how taxing it is on the body to travel outside of Hawaii . He knows the pressure Sean is under
to get quality cancer care. Sean’s impression was that the doctor was confident, yet not arrogant and stressed
the importance of risk/benefit analysis, which Sean considers very important.
At about 6pm, Dr. Coty called the house and said that he was looking at the blood
test results that he had ordered last week. He said that the check for Hepatitis C’ was negative but that he got low levels of positive for
Hepatitis B. He said that it
was at a level that would be consistent with possibly a vaccine. Sean told him that he had the battery of shots for
Hepatitis when working with the Sheriff’s
Dept., on the dive team as well as after a fight that he was involved in where he got an open wound from an individual that
was positive for various things.
The doctor said that overall, the liver function tests were improved over the last
tests but said that he wanted Sean to come in tomorrow for another series of blood tests. He anticipates that the
tests will show more improvement, however if the test results are worse, then he may do a liver biopsy in two weeks. If the tests show improvement, then he will
proceed with treatment as scheduled. The rash diminishing and no fever etc., are what makes him feel that the tests
will be in Sean’s favor.
Dr. Coty said that he reviewed the ultrasound of Sean’s right arm where he felt the lump and was experiencing
the pain when touched, and that he feels it is a superficial blood clot. He said that
they will monitor it, but that he doesn’t recommend any anti-coagulants at this time.
Sean is still scheduled for Chemo/Anti-Nausea medication
training in the morning, so he will go in a little early for the blood draw. He will then go to be measured for the
radiation head gear that is necessary for undergoing the treatment.
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tuesday, november 4, 2008
DONATIONS For those of you that would like to make a donation to Sean and his family,
we have setup an account with Central Pacific Bank, in addition to the PayPal account under the "Donate" tab.
Please make the checks payable to "Sean Stodelle" and forward to the following: Central Pacific Bank Attn: Ms. Tobi Uedoi 2061 Wells Street Wailuku, HI 96793-2221 Tel: 808-249-2570
Cards and letters can be sent to: Sean, Melany and Jordyn Stodelle P.O. Box 37 Kahului, HI 96733
Mahalo for your prayers, well wishes, words of encouragement and support!
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recap of sean's follow-up appt. 11/3Here is
the update from Mike on the appt. in Honolulu yesterday:
Well,
a long day and the most exercise that Sean has had in several months. Our visit started rather early today with a flight
to Oahu that left Maui about 0840 hr this morning. We arrived a little early, so we visited the Hanapa’a dive shop
in Honolulu where Sean was able to get himself the new Hawaii Skin Diver polo shirt. It was then on to Dr. Donovan’s
office at the Kaiser Hospital where Sean had his surgery. This is the 30-day follow-up visit and examination.
Dr. Donovan was his usual professional self, but came in and sat with us for probably a good 45 minutes,
answering questions and giving his impressions on what was taking place with Sean. Sean’s incision and the general area
surrounding the surgery seemed to be healing very well.
He didn’t seem upset with Dr. Coty and the fact that
the treatment has not yet begun. He said that in light of the suspected infection, high temp, rash, etc. that delaying
the treatment until answers were obtained was what he would expect. Dr. Donovan indicated that the rash, itch, spiking
temp, etc. were all quite possibly a result to the reaction to the Tegretol medication. He said that other anti-seizure medications
such as Dilantin cause such reactions as well, only with Dilantin the rash is usually more severe, even causing open sores,
etc.
We asked about the clinical trials that were out there and he said that he wanted
to reiterate what he had said previously and that was that he had cautioned us about running off to other locations when the
treatment he would receive would most probably be the same as he'd receive right here in Hawaii. He
also said that he would not want to be too aggressive in the beginning of treatment with the additional medications. The
aggressive treatments are usually reserved for later or if there is a re-occurrence of the tumor. Being too aggressive
with treatment could potentially be more harmful than good in light of the current problems that Sean is experiencing such
as the reaction to the medications, liver function problems, etc. He went on to remind us that Clinical Trials are funded
based on numbers, so keep that in mind. If the study is willing to evaluate you or make a recommendation based on your
records and slides, that would be better for you and a lot less inconvenient on you and your family. Sean says that he understands
that inconvenience is not the main issue here, but it is a factor that must be taken into consideration when taking on such
a prolonged treatment regimen.
The flight over and back didn’t seem to bother Sean too much.
The pressure build-up caused him a headache which was described as a dull pain and a little numbness in the scalp area.
Dr. Donovan said that the next appointment with Sean will be about a month after the next MRI, which will
be ordered upon completion of his first radiation session. Today (11/4) is the consult with Dr. Baker, the Radiation
Oncologist who will begin the preparation for Sean’s treatments. Will post the results from this appointment later today.
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sunday, november 2, 2008
web trafficWith an article on Sean going to press today in the local Maui News, the
website's been experiencing so much traffic that I haven't been able to even post the link! But low and behold, here
it is: http://mauinews.com/page/content.detail/id/510529.html?nav=12. Many thanks for the fabulous article written by Sky Barnhart, whose other work can be found at www.skywritemaui.com.
Below are photos that ran in the article and are reused here courtesy of The Maui News:

And here are some pics from Maui Ocean Center's underwater pumpkin carving that Papa Mike took Jordy to. As
if it weren't challenging enough already, the carver-divers were kept constant company with sharks!
Chumming
the water with...pumpkin??
 Jordy and her Papa at Maui Ocean Center.

And then there was Sean's clever Halloween masterpiece: I wonder where he drew his inspiration
from? (Hint: that's a pretty darn good resection!)
 Hmm...am I seeing double, or is that the official "Stody" stance?

In other news, Sean returns to Oahu tomorrow for his recheck with neurosurgeon, Dr. Donovan. We are all very anxious
to see what the doctor has to say. Meanwhile, I will be en route to Maui, arriving at 1:30pm. Will update on his progress
as soon as those details become available.
Reminder: Exactly one week from today is the Roi Round-up:
An Invasive Species Dive Tournament in support of Stody and family. See "Roi Round-up" page for more info, and stay
posted for new updates over the next week!
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saturday, november 1, 2008
pics from last night
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